Wednesday, August 15, 2012

The Most Active Retiree I Know - My Dad

I've stumbled across a few blogs lately, that have left me feeling a bit depressed. There seems to be sentiment among a large group of older retirees that their world is shrinking and their best years are behind them. Not only does it make me sad on their behalf, I believe it to be primarily a case of letting your thoughts create your reality. Yes, certainly, if you believe your best years are behind you then they probably are.

I subscribe to the camp of thinking that my best years are still to come. Every year I've lived so far has delivered more than the year preceding, and I see no reason why this should change going forward. Certainly the things I occupy my time with have changed as I've gotten older, but for every activity I've laid aside, another just as satisfying has come along to take it's place. For example, I used to love downhill skiing, now I prefer cross country skiing. I used to enter numerous running events each year, now I prefer to run recreationally, focusing my competitive juices instead on improving my bicycling mileage and speed. I used to enjoy shaking up the dance floor with wild and crazy moves, now I prefer the challenge and romance of ballroom dancing. Which, by the way, includes several heart pumping, not-for-sissy dances like Salsa, Quickstep, Jitterbug and E. Coast Swing.

So I guess I just don't get it. And apparently, neither does my 76 year old father. In the last five years he has bicycled from Canada to Mexico, spent six weeks traveling through Alaska by motorcycle and tent, spent several weeks dirt biking in Death Valley, ridden across the USA countless times in his RV or on his motorcycle, taken an ATV and jeep over the world famous and immensely challenging Rubicon Trail, enrolled in numerous gun and rifle seminars to improve his shooting, taken a racing course at a race track, and most recently, enjoyed a six week tour of northeast Canada by sidecar motorcycle and tent.
My active father at 76, with no signs yet of slowing down.
His primary mode of transportation and lodging in Canada this summer - a sidecar motorcycle and a tent trailer.
All set up and ready to enjoy the evening . . . and the beautiful view! 
One of many hot breakfasts he cooked during the 6-week trip.
During a multi day ATV ride in Colorado earlier this summer
Dad with his classic Russian Ural sidecar motorcycle in Death Valley in 2010.
His companion,Tripper, rides in the sidecar.
I prefer the way my dad is tackling this phase of his life and I plan to do exactly the same. My activities may be different than his, but I expect the enjoyment I get from continuing to live big in my more senior years to be exactly the same. 

How about you? How do you intend to live out your senior years?

12 comments:

  1. I have to know more about how the dog rides in the sidecar. Does he have a seatbelt? A helmet? Does he seem to enjoy it?

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  2. Love the phots and I so admire you for your high level of energy. That said, while I dontthink my best years are behind me, my best years in physical terms are long behind me. And I think lots of retirees prefer a slower, laid back lifestyle. I know I prefer long stretches of relaxing atmosphere with some high energy travel and other things thrown in.

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    1. What I'm really speaking to is the attitude of surrender and depression that I experienced on several blogs today. Very disturbing and very sad. Nothing about your blog gives anything close to a similar impression. You clearly continue to enjoy your life and raise the bar on it as it suits you.

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  3. Your father's attitude to retirement is very inspiring. My blog and my new book both address this issue exactly. I believe that it is largely attitude, rather than circumstances, that drive happiness.

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    1. I see both the body and the brain as use-it or lose-it entities. Absent some devastating event beyond our control, both need regular workouts throughout our life if we wish them to deliver continued high performance.

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  4. Tamara, it is obvious where your "passion for living life" comes from. What an inspiration your Dad is. As long as my body is able and my mind is willing I will continue to move forward. No rocking chair for me.

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    1. Suzanne, I will return the sentiment - your zest for live is likewise communicated in your blog and inspires me as well. ;-)

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  5. As someone that actually knows both Tamara and her father (and I would LOVE to know Tripper!!) They are very, very high energy people. But also extremely goal oriented so just sitting around will never do. I do not have the same level of energy..but find myself sitting back and getting lazy and love the high energy posts that bring me back to a more appropriate level for me. Thanks Tammy. You and your father will always be more driven than I am..but I like having a something to aim for being that I'm still a competitive thing by nature..LOL Keep on doing exactly what you are!!

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    1. Love you Janet. And see you in Summer 2014!

      (And you should meet my daughter Kelli . . . holy moly!)

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  6. Well now I see where you get your high energy, Tamara! I agree with your post. Still great years ahead. I've got another torn meniscus with surgery scheduled in April. Just a temporary setback but plan to be back climbing mountains again once healed. For me, retirement is a sandwhich of activities I enjoy while also not feeling guilty if it"s between sluices of time of being a couch potato (while overlapping on the computer or doing crafts...).

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    1. Exactly Priscilla! And honestly, you are one of my role models. :-)

      Mike had meniscus surgery last year, and is now back to doing pretty much everything but running. The surgery slightly re-aligned his ligaments, and running is now painful, but he can hike, bike, and do all low-impact cardio activities at will.

      The pain went away immediately after surgery, and full range of movement came back within a couple of months, so hang in there!

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